Why You Absolutely Can Choose What Happens to You

Instead of having to choose how to respond

By Sam Moqadam on Unsplash

You’ve all heard that phrase, ‘You can’t choose what happens to you, you can only choose how you respond to it’. It’s a good phrase and it brings accountability and self-reliance, but it's also bullsh*t.

You absolutely can choose what happens to you. Someone in the crowd heckles the…



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Emmanuel Lomax

Amateur writer with a love for discussion and languages. Currently learning and bettering myself. Slowly.